My busy life

Been skipping classes like mad recently... Especially the finance subject that I'm taking ---> FRA. Up to now I've only attended 2 lectures out of so many! The reason being is that... I really have a cacat-ed lecturer who DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO TEACH at all!

Can you imagine he gives u people a

question to solve, but he couldn't even solve it by himself?

"OK we will mark down this question first... next week when we come back I will give you guys the answers!"

This is the respond he gives usually. Then! When next lecture is there... he TOTALLY FORGET about this thing. Man....

Luckily the lecturer had been changed to another guy who is so much better, and his lecture will commence this week.. and I feel really bad that I skipped because of assignment. Argh...

Been staying in my uni till late night. Today is the 3rd day... and I am still rushing for my assignment... Anyway I still I shall go back to work now. Bye people!

Wish me luck!

After so long... A dinner with my friends (Sadly.. only 3 of us!)

Today is sunday. This is a very special sunday for me. It is special in a way that it symbolizes a full-stop to someone's corrupted, direction-less, and soul-less life. It is also special in that it is the beginning of a new life for someone. =)

Sunday, it should be a family day to a lot of people. Sadly, my mum went for a one trip early in the morning... leaving me alone at home...

So I have no choice... today is so special so I must celebrate with someone at least! So I called up my yumchar gang for a dinner tonight... Mana tau... only 2 of them can make it... Haihhh sad! It has been so long since we all dine together on one table lor okay!~

SO YOU BETTER MAKE SURE YOU'RE FREE NEXT TIME! =) you know who you are la!

Picked up WongHon and WeiHoe at 7.30pm... So we headed to Puchong to cari makan. In case you don't know... Puchong is a place full of delicious foods... you name it, they have it there. But I brought them to a "Crab" place coz the crabs there are delicious, yet cheap!~

The crabs here are priced @ Rm20/kg! Cheap isn't it? (Rm22/kg for the saulted egg fried crab)

We usually do not consider much when comes to food... (This does not suggest that we are rich. We simple love nice foods) Therefore we ordered:

1. Cheese and Butter Crab
2. Marmeet Crab
3. Fan Shu Yip (Vegie)
4. Salted fish with pork in clay pot
5. Mongolia deep fried "lai liu har" (pee prawn is it...? lol...)
6. and lastly...

deep fried Man Tao for dipping in the crab sauce ;)

"OMG! ALL ALSO MEAT!"

YALA! Initially I ordered a taufu instead of the salted fish pork 1... BUthen got one carnivore complained that A MEAL IS NOT A MEAL when there is NO MEAT! Wth... =.="

No choice lor... Made me gained so much calories in a day...

Introducing 2 leng chai - WongHon and WeiHoe

Mission accomplished!

The guy below made this "artwork" on the table clothes yet pretending that is not his masterpiece by changing his seat to opposite...

Do you want to try? ;)

He seems so satisfied with the meal after hours of complaining his hungry stomach to me =P

Overall the foods are nice and price is reasonable. It costs us Rm91 for a meal of three person (kinda expensive I know... =.=") You should give this a try if you like to eat crab! I do not get paid for this okay!

It's at Puchong bandar puteri.

And while I was sending them home... I saw this car in front of me with this LOGO! OMG! He's one of the Megatron's army!

SCARE THE HELL OUT OF ME!

Luckily he didn't transform or else I would not be able to make this post. =P

How would you rank them?

Money, Friends, Family, Love, Career

How would you rank them?

But before we rank them, let's give some definitions to each (at least myself)

Money - the root of all evil! You need to to buy foods, drinks, shelters, daily needs. Basically you can't live without it. SO do I!

Friends - Friends can be categorized as well. Don't believe? You may have HI-BYE friends, you may have friends that only CALL YOU WHEN THEY NEED YOU, you may have friends that always yumchar with you, you may have friends that listen to you when you're down, you may also have friends that really give u a hand when you need them, so called true friends. But how many true friends do you have? I'm referring to true friends here.

Family - of course, they are your love ones. (Maybe for some they are not...?) Your mum, your dad, your siblings, that you care, or even hate... But no matter what, they are your family. Here, of coz, I am referring to my mum and my sister.

Love - love... I can't really define this term,. There wouldn't be so many suicide cases (because of love) every year if one can really understand it. For me, I am single now. So...

Career - Talk about career... Eh, what is exactly a "career"? I can't really define it... your job? your occupation? According to Oxford English Dictionary, it is "an individual's course or progress through life (or a distinct portion of life)" But to me everyone needs a career. That's where you get your source of income, your satisfaction, your lessons etc.

"How would you rank them?"

This question has been running in my head since few years back. Believe me, it's NEVER EASY to rank them, and some of you would think that it's kinda pointless to rank them right?

Afterall, ranking them allows you to see what you really want in your life. But that doesn't mean that the placing means one is more important or less important. To me they are ALL EQUAL.

Through out the years, the ranking somehow switched places. However, at this point of time... I would rank my family in 1st place, as always!

1st: Family!

To those who know me... you know that I am considered as a single parent kid. My mum brought me up ALONE! She went to work, from morning till late night, earning money to support me in my education, my living... until what I am now. She stopped working few years back due to an eye disease known as Glaucoma. So being her son, I really appreciate on what she has done for me. I always tell myself that I have to repay my mum. That's why since Form5, a lot of decisions made (my education, my thought, my behaviors) somehow influenced by her. I won't deny till now she is still very influential in many decisions I make. She has made the Kok Fai today, that you know. Thanks mum.

(Bringing my mum for a world tour is always my dream)

2nd: Career

Ya career.... I want career so much. I want money i want money! More and more money! Eh? Then why don't I put money as the second place? It's simple. Because other than money, I expect more recognition (self actualization) from my career. Asking me to be an accountant or an office boy with monthly income of 5k is somewhat attractive, but I WILL NOT pick up this occupation because myself cannot be actualized.

I often tell myself and friends around me that I want to be succeed by the age of 25, because I really want to! I want to be different. I always believe I have the capabilities to make things so different than they should. If Mark Zuckerberg can be billionaire at the age of 24, why not me?

And why would I want career so much... Part of it also because of my mum. I promise myself that I want to give her a prosperous retirement. And I really demand recognition, because being a parent, there's nothing more than seeing your kids grown up and being successful as they can... Isn't it?

3rd: Money

NO money no talk! This is the reality. With money, you can do almost EVERYTHING in a developed country. YES, it's really EVERYTHING, even crimes also... No problem la!~

Don't agree with me? How many of you have the experience of being caught by police? So would you say "Give me SAMAN la! Cepat sikit! I tengah kejar masa!"... or you would say... "Eh Bang... Tolong sikit la...."? Example here is only small case. But, believe me... money is essential.

To be frank, with money, you can buy love, you can buy friends, you can even buy family... But are they sincere...? Or they just sincere to your "money"?

4th: Friends

"A friend in need is a friend indeed". Friends are the most important people when you're outside your house. How many of you have more than 10 true friends...? Means... when you call them for help, they would offer their help, instead of saying... "Er I am not free..." etc. I personally have few friends like this. My gang la... who else? Ask me whether I am satisfy? Of course I do. It's always better to have a true friend than 10 "just friend". =)

5th: Love...

Love... love is sweet, love is scary.. too. I won't deny that when I'm in a relationship love will go parallel with my family. But at this point of time... I just want to focus on my career. Regarding love... when fate comes, it comes. There's nothing I can do. Just let it be. =)

But honestly! I really wish that I can find someone who willing to support me in whatever that I will be doing. Listen to me when I'm frustrated, console me and cheer me when I'm sad, and of course, willing to share her happiness with me. Really have no idea when only can I meet the "right one"? I hope is the next one. ;)

Having ranked them... I would say that each of them are all important to me. Really no offence one to another yeah... hehe.

So... I've ranked for myself. What about you? If you think that this is not pointless, feel free to comment on this and tell me how you rank these for yourself. I really wish to have 2 ways communication instead of just reading what I'm writing. =)

Cheer Kok Fai!

Deep Apologise to My Little Blog...

I realize that I've stopped blogging for like... almost a year. Yeah close to. But recently I really feel like starting to blog again. You see... I'm just so inconsistent.

Anyway, got myself a nice phone - N85, which captures really good pics. =) So I guess I have enough reasons to blog again.

I'm planning to include what I'll be doing, what are my thoughts at different moment... until the age of 25. I would include a counter until the day to come - which is 14th October 2012. My purpose of doing so... of course, is to see whether have I achieve what I've been telling people that around me, which is... to be succeed by the age of 25. I know it's not easy, but no worries. I am not a blind person. I know what I am doing. =)

Lastly, I hope this blog would records down my stories along my life till the age of 25. And I've decided to rename it to

"the journey to 25"!

So being a friend of mine, I hope you guys can support me fully and have the best wishes to me =)

Welcome to kokofai's blog - the revived blog! =D